What to Do If You Suspect Elder Abuse

Elder abuse is a serious and often hidden problem that affects millions of older adults across the country. It can take many forms—including physical harm, emotional manipulation, financial exploitation, and neglect. If you suspect someone is being mistreated, knowing how to act—safely and effectively—can make a life-changing difference.

How to Recognize the Signs

Abuse isn’t always obvious. In many cases, the victim may be afraid or unable to speak up. Common warning signs include:

• Unexplained injuries (bruises, cuts, or broken bones)
• Withdrawal or fearfulness, especially around certain individuals
• Poor hygiene or signs of malnutrition
• Sudden changes in financial behavior, such as large withdrawals or modified legal documents

According to the National Institute on Aging, emotional abuse can manifest through anxiety, depression, or isolation. Financial abuse may involve unauthorized access to bank accounts or changes to wills, titles, or deeds.

If There’s Immediate Danger: Act Now

If the person is in immediate danger, call 911 or your local emergency services. Time is critical in life-threatening situations.

For non-emergency cases, reach out to Adult Protective Services (APS) in your state. APS professionals are trained to investigate abuse, arrange medical care, and ensure the elder’s safety.

Document What You See

Before making a report, gather as much detailed evidence as possible. Useful documentation includes:

• Notes of dates and times when suspicious events occurred
• Photos of visible injuries or unsafe living conditions
• Copies of bank statements, checks, or other financial records showing unusual activity
• Descriptions of conversations or interactions with caregivers

These details help support an investigation and protect the elder’s legal rights.

Report the Abuse

Once you’ve gathered observations, report them to:

• Adult Protective Services (APS) in your state
• The Eldercare Locator: 1-800-677-1116 (for help connecting to local services)
• Your state’s long-term care ombudsman if the elder is in a nursing home or assisted living facility

Reporting can be done confidentially and may help stop the abuse before it worsens.

Speak With an Elder Law Attorney

If there are legal or financial issues—such as stolen assets, coercion, or questionable contracts—consulting an elder law attorney is essential. A lawyer can help:

• File restraining orders or guardianship petitions
• Recover misappropriated funds
• Protect wills, trusts, and property titles from fraud

For an overview of how legal professionals handle elder abuse cases, see RocketPages’ guide on Understanding Elder Abuse and Neglect.

If you’re concerned about long-term financial protections, this article on safeguarding a senior’s assets is a helpful resource.

Offer Ongoing Support

Victims of elder abuse often feel ashamed, frightened, or isolated. Your emotional support can go a long way. Encourage them to speak openly with people they trust, whether it’s family, a medical provider, or a legal professional.

Being present, non-judgmental, and proactive can help rebuild the elder’s sense of control and dignity.

Final Thoughts

Elder abuse thrives in silence. By recognizing the signs, reporting suspicions, and offering support, you can help protect vulnerable individuals and hold abusers accountable. Whether it’s physical harm, neglect, or financial manipulation, taking action could save a life—and secure justice.